by Kelly Hajash
Did you know that trees and human beings have similarities beyond their sheer existence on planet earth? This might seem far-fetched to some; stay with me while I explain. First, we shall enter the wonderful world of trees. Trees can and do live alone however they thrive in forests. Forests have complex networks connecting the trees through their roots sometimes termed ‘wood wide web’. Mycelium, tiny threads of fungal organisms entangle themselves amongst tree roots forming a mycorrhizal network connecting the trees in the forest. You are wondering what in the world mycorrhizal means. There is a symbiotic relationship between trees and fungus, a mycorrhizal network. The mycorrhizal network is a communication system and a means to share nutrients. Although this subject is widely researched now, it was a few short decades ago that Suzanne Simard originally discovered this interdependent network that trees share. (Who says trees can’t talk? Trees communicate with each other on the “Wood Wide Web” – BrightVibes)
What does this have to do with humans? There are many parallels here. Humans sometimes live alone, but they flourish in communities. People blossom with a complex network of individuals to communicate with and encourage one another. A multifaceted web of support and an endless list of ways we enrich each other’s lives is what creates a rich community. Strong communities are built on a foundation of symbiotic relationships. Robust relationships are fostered by effective communication. We have drastically changed the way we communicate over the years. What remains constant is the need to connect with each other, to communicate and understand each other.
In the wise words of Carl Rogers, “We think we listen, but very rarely do we listen with real understanding, true empathy. Yet listening, of this very special kind, is one of the most potent forces for change that I know.” When we listen without judgement, we allow ourselves to gain a true understanding. Understanding leads to empathy and breaks down barriers. Through listening we may find common ground, compromise, or simply agree to disagree. Maya Angelou said it best, “A friend may be waiting behind a stranger’s face.”
Speaking of communication, we are enhancing the way we communicate, by posting short videos on our Facebook page. Please note there are two Facebook Pages, one of which is the DRCA official page, ‘Discovery Ridge Community Association – DRCA’. The other Facebook Page by which we communicate is ‘Discovery Ridge Community Discussion’. Just as a reminder, we additionally communicate email to members (we collect emails via membership), our website https://discoveryridge.com/ and of course this newsletter.
Warm wishes to you and yours this holiday season.
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