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June 2026 is Buddy Up Month!

Throughout June, the Centre for Suicide
Prevention is promoting it’s Buddy Up program to prevent male suicide, see
https://www.buddyup.ca for resources and information on how you can get
involved or perhaps nudge someone to get involved. UBC also has some great
resources at https://headsupguys.org/.

Suicide is a leading cause of death for men
and is three times higher in men than women. So-called “deaths by despair” –
suicide, drug overdoses, alcohol, lung cancer from smoking – are highest in men
aged 30 to 59, higher than car accidents. Surprisingly, the suicide rate in
these prime working years is higher than for younger men aged 20 to 29 years.

You can help make a difference in the lives
of men you know and love. Make sure people are aware of workplace and community
resources like corporate EAP programs, 2-1-1 community support, 9-8-8 suicide
support (for people in crisis and if you’re looking for help for a friend), and
personally offering support and checking in with men you are worried about. If
you are a manager, teacher, or community leader, could you bring Buddy Up into
your workplace or school?

The Centre for Suicide Prevention works
hard to dispel the many myths of death by suicide.

Myth

Fact

Suicide prevention should
be left to professionals

Anyone can learn how to
intervene with someone at risk of suicide.

Talking about suicide
increases the risk.

Talking openly and
directly about suicide does not “put the idea in someone’s head.”
Instead, it reduces the risk, helps them feel heard, and opens the door for
them to seek help.

Suicide happens without
any warning.

There are almost always
warning signs before a suicide attempt, such as behavior changes, increased
substance use, or talking about hopelessness.

I invite all men to join the Buddy Up
Champions in promoting authentic conversations among men and their buddies. One
way is taking part in the June Challenge. And women to nudge their men.

Together we can help shift the statistics,
and hopefully you won’t have to help a father choose a casket for his son.
Personally, for me, it was a life changing experience, one reason why I’m a
Buddy Up champion, and why I’m active in wellness and kindness promotion.

Cam Howey

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